Bobby Alan Joy-Staines

10th November, 2016 - 10th November, 2016

A memorial for Bobby Alan Joy-Staines .

Our beautiful Bobby xx

So we had some amazing news on 1st august 2016 we found out much to our surprise we were pregnant with our third little treasure. A complete surprise but we were absolutely thrilled. This baby had come in admidst a challenging year for us and we were convinced he had been sent to give us the greatest of joys. On 2nd November we discovered we were expecting a baby boy 💙💙⚽️💙💙whom we named Bobby Alan after his Grandad in heaven.

Unforrunately Bobby had been very poorly, the worst fears were confirmed on 2nd November that Bobby had the very rare pataus syndrome and a diaphragmatic hernia the only other case they know of occurred in Japan it is insanely rare and there's no reasoning just bad luck 💔💔💔.

On 10th November the Angels called for him, he was born naturally, sleeping at 9.36pm and he was baptised 11am on 11th November.

Our church were amazing at helping us organise a small funeral for him and we laid him to rest on 24th november 2pm with some very precious and dear people. He is laid to rest in our village cemetery one of the most peaceful places I've ever known, it's incredibly private and we are so happy as a family in isleham even more happy we have Bobby near us.

We are heartbroken as a family we know for some reason his grandad wanted a little piece of us with him and we know he will look after him with so much love. Teddy asked if his brother would be bored in heaven and so he sent a football to go with him and they have both drawn Bobby pictures to take with him. We are devastated and so very grateful for all our precious children our faith and little family are strong, but there will not be a second that passes that we do not miss or feel Bobby's presence. In his short life he made a phenomenal impact on all of us and he is forever in our hearts.

we are eternally grateful to everyone who has shown us such kindness and amazing support at this time. We have had incredible support from the SOFT UK and CDH UK and 4LOUIS charities and we know we are not alone in this so many many people have endured such tragedy there are no words to explain how or why a little baby can be so poorly but we know he is safe in the arms of all the beautiful people we have lost to heaven.

Good night and God bless our beautiful angel 💙⚽️we shall always be thinking of you, missing you every single moment it is not right, you should be with us but you were too special For This world we love you so v v much with all our love always be warm and safe we will be together again, we will cuddle and play for eternity we love u with all our hearts always Mummy, Daddy, Teddy, and Sally xx

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